Sweater set: I know a lot of people don’t like these, but hear me out. Cardigans are so much more versatile than pull over sweaters. I’m big on jackets for professional dress, but the reality is that there are days when most of us want to wear something more comfy and cozy! A matched sweater set is the closest thing to a jacket in terms of authority, credibility, etc.

As you’re trying to get your head around wearing a sweater set, there are a couple of things to keep in mind. It doesn’t have to be that cutesy, old lady style. Look for styling your really like, perhaps one with beautiful beading, a really long one or one with a belt. There are lots to choose from. Also, the shell doesn’t have to be a jewel neck that is hard for most women to wear. Next, be sure to look for colors and fabrics that you’re absolutely crazy about.

Of course, if you can’t stand the idea of the sweater set, the cardigan can still be worn over blouses and other knit tops. And the shells are great under jackets or even by themselves in warm weather. (Don’t wear it alone in the office, though.)

Dressy Pumps: I love sling backs, but if you were only buying one pair of shoes, I’d recommend a basic, high heeled pump with a semi-pointed toe in the neutral you wear the most, i.e. black. They can be worn with everything from the LBD, to the suit, to the jeans. Of course, if you can’t wear heels, look for the most elegant leather or leather-like shoe you can find that’s comfortable.